Media?

Remember the time when u are only 12 years old? Primary 6, u know nothing about sex, body part and looking at girls/guys. Remember, that u can talk with your friend in a childish tone and no one will criticize u? Remember that tomorrow is another day of fun?

Nowadays, because of the media, everything had became fucked up, We say vulgar words like nobodies business. We smoke cigarette to feel cool and got addicted to it in the process. We join gang to avoid being bully and end up bullying people instead. Boy and girl relationship became important to some people that they would do anything to get one. People would think they know love at the age of 13-18 saying love will last long. Well, some would give up their virginity to some cool handsome guys because he's muscular and had tattoo.


I overheard a conversation today, its was a young couple at the age of 15-16 and their guy friend, i heard the girl saying to the guy friend : Can u don't keep purposely touch my neh?
i don't know why, but i feel so taken aback and just feel that she sounds like a slut and whatever?. But the question is why did i feel this way, its all because of media, Who am i to say someone a slut without knowing them. Even so, knowing them does not give me the authority to call anyone a slut or a bastard. Media make it so easy to say slut and bastard when in fact they change the way of everything, so if i talk to a lot of girls, that made me a playboy? so if a girl hang out with guys only, that made her a slut?. No, and those who know love from media like titanic think again, if u think at the age of 15 u feel like marrying him or her, are u ready to have a commitment? are you ready to spend your entire life with him or her? To be there for her or him on difficult times.

For me , i know i am affected by the media and i don't know love. I could only imagine love like titanic which is not true at all.